Dating

Feb 11, 20232 min read

I Bought a "Mommy" Pin...

...and I don't have kids. Alternate title for this blog post: "I went to an erotic arts & crafts fair and all I got was a kinky pin for...

Dec 20, 20222 min read

What About Girls, Though?

I haven't been doing much about the "bi" in my bisexuality. As cliche as it is to say, I did experiment with making out with girls back...

Jul 2, 20224 min read

Why I Haven't Been Writing

The first post I published on this blog (way back in October 2021) was called "'So What Are You Looking For?'", a question I'd been...

May 17, 20224 min read

Should I Write a Romance Novel?

The way things are going, I may never date again. A pandemic ago, I was occasionally naked with a member of the opposite sex, but the...

Mar 29, 20223 min read

Why I'm Quitting Online Dating

Two days ago, I finally removed the dating app from my phone. I was worried about the withdrawal; instead, I've found greater peace of...

Mar 19, 20221 min read

The Cougar Cookbook - Part Two

This is my recipe for a middle-aged woman who's getting iced by young men on dating apps, otherwise known as a frozen cougar. Frozen...

Mar 13, 20227 min read

Naughty & Nurturing: Playing the Role of “Cougar Mom”

I never had children. It’s not a decision I regret, as I'd never intended to become a mom. However, I’d be lying if I said there wasn’t a...

Feb 26, 20222 min read

The Cougar Cookbook - Part One

This is my recipe for a cougar date. Use at your own discretion. Cougar Date INGREDIENTS 1 middle-aged woman, approximately 45 years old...

Feb 22, 20224 min read

Months of Unsexy

The effect of depression on your libido is no joke. Like a camel storing water in its humps, I can go for long periods of time without...

Jan 10, 20223 min read

Kryptonite: The Attractive Older Man

I pride myself on setting a hard limit of 30 for the men I date. (Okay, more like 25...and admittedly up to a whopping 32 if the fish in...

Jan 3, 20224 min read

Manchild

A common reaction I get from my friends when I tell them how young I date is, "I could never date a guy in his twenties - they're so...

Nov 28, 20213 min read

We Need to Talk About Sex & Triggers

"Oh no! He's gonna be here in five minutes. I don't have time to put any makeup on! Why didn't I take a shower sooner? Always leaving...

Oct 31, 20212 min read

Ghosted: A Halloween Story

Sometimes I worry I've built up so much bad dating karma that I've cursed myself to a lifetime of solitude... Every time I look down at...

Oct 24, 20214 min read

"So what are you looking for?"

When it comes to dating, I never have a good answer to this question. Or do I just never have the courage to say it? "Are you looking for...